So the Hubby has been gone for almost 4 months now and it seems like it has been 2 years. He has decided that he is going to stay for a year, so it's going to be until May that he comes home. Happy happy joy joy. On the one hand the money is nice. We have been able to get some bills paid off and others paid down. On the other hand he is missing out on so much. He wasn't here for Father's Day, or The 4th of July, he is now going to miss his birthday, Abi's birthday, Thanksgiving, and he says that he is going to take his R&R for Christmas. With the way the Army goes we will just have to see about that. Nothing is ever as it seems or how it's supposed to be. Think of the worst possible thing that can happen at that moment and that is what the Army is going to throw at you. There is no planning anything b/c everything can change at any given moment. Life is certainly a rollercoaster.
In other news though Abi is talking so much more, and will take the phone away from you if she thinks you are talking to her daddy. He is worried that she isn't going to remember him when he comes home, but she will not forget her daddy. She has her very own picture and she gets to talk to him about once a week, sometimes more. He is out on mission a lot so times vary.
My grandmother found out that she had a tumor on her kidney. It was cancerous, but she had surgery to have the whole kidney removed. Somewhere in the process her belly button got a huge cut on it and the Doc can't seem to get it to heal. Not only that but he has no idea where it came from. He isn't sure if he did it or not. I am not sure what the hell kind of Doc this is, but he hasn't impressed me much. Honestly it isn't my decision where my Grandma goes, but I have been trying to talk her into going somewhere else. It's been almost a month since her surgery and they are just now going to do another surgery to find out what is going on with her belly. This is going to be an all new experience. I am not sure how much longer I can bite my tongue.
I have been doing pretty good healthwise for a change. However might end up having to have surgery on my stomache. The pain is getting absolutely unbearable. Terrible heartburn all of the time making it hard to sleep. I have tried just about everything I can over the counter and even some that were prescribed. Nothing much left to do really. I am waiting on a letter from my insurance to tell me what I can do next. Life is busy busy, but there is no better way to pass the time when your Husband is away than to fill up your time. I hope that it keeps passing by as quickly as it has been!!
